Second Generation Heartache or First Generation Shadow

lt similar thoughts or have engaged in discussions with your children where you have noticed them to have similar thoughts?
Sadly and longing to hear from one who understands the emotional strain and perhaps has carved his/her own path.
Second Generationer who someti Dear NRIs or Indians or whatever name which you prefer,
I am a second-generation youth of America. Although I grew up here, perhaps I was too young then to understand things. I feel more able to relate to Indians who are just recently from India or are in India. Now, finding myself just barely beyond my teens, I recently keep finding myself isolated from and shocked at my surroundings; a fellow second-generationer suggested I was going through what "our parents" must have gone through upon coming to America.
Per chance, I hold some similar values to them. Yet perhaps they see India seems to becoming Westernized day by day...?
And now, career issues, who am I, and etc.